Yes, you are right, of course. It is that. But it was your use of the phrase amazing amount of caring that made me think.
I had been focused on Xander's emotional state, where Spike's immediate and cheerful certainty that (now his own concerns and fears were sorted) Xander just needed a practical solution to a practical problem, which was not actually what he was angsting about anyway, could be seen as at least insensitive. *g*
But as I said, I love it when a comment makes me think and even more when it makes me see something I've written in a different light. So, thank you once more.